Caregiver Reflections

What is this life I have come into?
There is nothing familiar to what once was.

Have I walked into someone else's life,

or perhaps it is all a dream?

So many things we used to do,

so simple and without much thought.

These same routines have now become

much more effort that requires a plan.

The one we care for never thought they would be

in a place where they would need such help.

If asked I'm sure they would tell their loved one

that they wished for what used to be.

We did not choose this role we play,

and never believed it would be ours.

It is something that others must do,

how could it permeate our life?

We ask God to give us patience,

as we go through every step and phase.

Although we always give our best effort,

there are days where we may fall short.

We want to be the angel and savior,

that makes their life good every day.

Running through our mind always seems to be, 

"What could I have done better today"?

We must remember we can't do it all,

even though we believe we can.

Some days our shoulders begin to drop,

from the emotional weight they bear.

Caregiver has such a broad definition,

and applies to people both known and unknown. 

In spite of the sameness the title holds,

we each play such a different role.

To all the caregivers that struggle each day,

remember you are not alone.

Just give them the best you are able to give,

and reach out for help when you need a hand.

Cherish each day that is given to you

with your loved one that means so much.

With a little faith, hope, and love you will see,

even tough days are worth their weight in gold.