Don't Break Our Little Girls Heart

Mother's and daughters - there is a lifetime bond for most that is unbreakable. There will be times that they disagree, or may be angry with one another, but ultimately the deep connection is forever.

No matter how old your daughter is, a mother cannot bear to see them with a broken heart. We feel their pain, and wish that we could bear it for them so they could move forward with their life. We don't want to see them suffer for even a moment. So as a mother, I have a message for the boys (or men) who are contemplating becoming involved with our daughters.

I know there are no guarantees when it comes to relationships. However, if your only intention is to have a good time and go, then please pass on by. If you are not interested in a real relationship that may lead to commitment, then don't move in and play house. The longer you are around, the stronger the emotional attachment will be. Once that connection is made, when you leave, you will leave a path of emotional destruction. And if there are children involved they too are emotionally broken.

Mothers are left to try and help them pick up the pieces and move forward. And as their heart weeps, if they have children, they need to try and help them understand why they were not wanted. Trust in others is lost, and the time to heal and trust again is long.

We mothers don't want to watch our daughters, or grandchildren, go through this heartache. So, if you just want to have a good time, then my advice is to find it somewhere else.



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