Friends

We all have friends. Some come into our lives for a while and then slowly fade away. I have always believed that they come into our lives for a reason, and once the need has been fulfilled, they are gone. Either we needed them during that time, or they needed us. Either way, it was a good thing for both.

Then there are the friends that come into our lives and are with us forever - through good times and through bad. The connection we make with them just feels right from the moment we meet. These lifelong friends are truly a blessing.

I am very fortunate to have some amazing lifelong friends. Whether we see each other often or only occasionally, we are able to pick up where we left off. From the moment we say hello the conversation flows easily and feels like the warmth of a hug. If things are going great, we share in the joy, and if things are rough, we lift each other up. We listen or give advice depending on what is needed. We laugh together as we share humorous stories from our lives. We will also cry together in times of grief. Like a strong tree in the forest, we stand with one another through every phase of our lives.

As James Taylor said so eloquently:

"You just call out my name
And you know wherever I am
I'll come running to see you again
Winter, spring summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there
You've got a friend"

I will be forever grateful for these amazing people and cherish each moment we have. Life would not be the same without them and I thank them for embracing me. My life is richer for knowing them. May you have a conversation with a dear friend today and feel the warmth of a hug.


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