Parenting

Being a parent is an honor, and a big responsibility that cannot be taken lightly. Once you make the decision to have children you have an obligation to nurture, safeguard and teach them certain things. Your ultimate goal is to raise them to be kind, compassionate and contributing members of society. Over the years I have learned some basic things that we need to teach children in order to obtain this goal.

• A moral compass. Whether or not you believe in organized religion, children should be taught the basics. This moral compass will be what guides them when determining right from wrong.
• Taking responsibility for their own choices and actions. It's not somebody else's fault when things go wrong.
• In order to achieve the things you want in life you have to work hard. Nothing should be handed to you without working for it.
• You are not better than others, and you should treat all people with respect.
• The rules/laws apply to all of us. you are not exempt.
• You don't have the right to say whatever you're thinking to whomever you want. Not everyone wants to know your opinion. Use a filter.
• Family is what grounds you. Maintain a close relationship with them.
• Be an active member in your community and volunteer. Do what you can for those who are less fortunate than you.
• Listen more than you speak, and treat others the way you want to be treated.
• Children learn by watching. make sure you are a good role model.

I'm sure there are many other things that have not been mentioned, but this is a good beginning.

If you are already a parent teaching your children these things, then kudos to you! If you do not have children, then think long and hard before making that decision. It is not a decision to made in haste or something to be taken lightly - it is a lifelong commitment. If you are not up to the challenge, then don't take it on.