Memorial Day – One Day is Not Enough

Memorial Day is a federal U.S. holiday where we honor those who died while serving in our armed forces. The holiday is observed every year on the last Monday of May, and originated as Decoration Day after the American Civil War in 1868. It was established by The Grand Army of the Republic, an organization of Union veterans founded in Decatur, Illinois, as a time for the nation to decorate the graves of the war dead with flowers. By the 20th century, competing Union and Confederate holiday traditions celebrated on different days had merged, and in time Memorial Day extended to honor all Americans who died while in the military service. On a lighter note, It usually marks the start of the summer vacation season.

As an American, I cannot thank those who have served, or are serving our country enough. Memorial Day is a great reminder; however we should honor and thank them every single day. Not only have they given their time to serve, but their families also serve when their loved one is away from home. Husbands, wives, fathers and mothers are gone for long periods of time. Families left at home trying to remain strong, and praying their loved one will return safely to them.

Some will never return as they give the ultimate sacrifice – their life. The ones who do come home are not left without scars. Some of their wounds are physical, and they will go through many months of recuperation and rehabilitation. Family members will do whatever it takes to try and pull them through the pain, and suffer right along with them. Other scars are not physical, and these can have as devastating an effect on the veteran and their family. Nightmares, anxiety, fear and much more that may take a lifetime to repair – if it can be done at all. If they are fortunate they will eventually resume a “normal” life. Some will never recover fully and it can tear a family apart.

We do not do enough for our Veterans. They should have the best care and support not only for themselves, but also for their families. None of them should be left waiting for months to get the care they need.

They also should receive the respect and thanks of every American, every single day. They have sacrificed to do a job that others have not, because they believe it is the right thing to do. They are an example for our youth, and should be the heroes that they are taught to worship and look up to.

So the next time you see a man or woman in uniform, please take the time to thank them personally for serving their country and protecting you and your family.