Even the Strong Need a Hand
We all have times when things do not seem to go as planned, whether it be in our personal relationships or our work. I have always believed in being a strong person and facing what life brings my way. As my children were growing up, there were two things that I told them. 1. The things that did not break them would only make them stronger. 2. When you get pushed down by life, you pick yourself up and put one foot in front of the other and move forward. Of course there is also a third one my boyfriend has shared with them: You can eat an elephant one bite at a time. Although at times it is hard not to choke on each bite.
Even as I have been (and raised my children to be) strong and self reliant, I have also become more realistic as I age. Nobody can do it alone all the time, and asking for help during the most difficult times does not make you weak. The strongest person needs a helping hand from time to time. And a wise person knows when to ask.
So I have added some words of advice to my children: know when you need someone to hold your hand. Every now and then we all need to be told that things will be alright.
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